"And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death - even death on a cross!" Philippians 2:8

If I'm told to do something that I don't agree with, I wouldn't do it. But if I'm forced to, I wouldn't do so willingly nor happily. Jesus didn't want to. He asked if God the Father would take this cup from him.

Humble myself and obediently follow God's will 
even if it's not what I want.

"but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness." Philippians 2:7

We don't like to make ourselves nothing. We feel insecure because we have nothing to hold onto. But Jesus as God did exactly that. He let go of everything - his kingship, his possessions, and his honour. He did all that for us.

What if being human in itself is being nothing? 
I am nothing without God.    

"Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped," Philippians 2:6

Jesus is God. Yet he did not hold tightly onto this status or title. He knew his identity and lived accordingly to accomplish God's plans and purposes. Jesus did not misuse what he was given.

Following Jesus as our role model,
know our identity in God to undividedly further his kingdom.

"Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus:" Philippians 2:5

Whatever Jesus' thoughts, perspectives, and feelings are, so should mine be. Don't let others or things get in the way of this. When we have the same attitude as Jesus, our lifestyle will be the same too.

Start by having the same attitude as Jesus,
everything else will follow.

"Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others" Philippians 2:4

This verse doesn't tell us to exclusively look to others' interests and always seeking their interests first. This is not permission to neglect ourselves and self-sabotage. There is a balance between looking after ourselves and others.

Learn to care inwardly and outwardly.

"Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves." Philippians 2:3

Living for God means not putting our own intentions and desires first. There are other people to consider. See the strengths in others, without putting myself down. A gesture not from a place of pride or achievements.

Living humbly is making a stand for the gospel.

"then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and purpose" Philippians 2:2

It is challenging to be a team with others. Everyone is so different with their own perspectives and upbringing. But in God there is a way to be united yet remain individually unique. Because of him, there is a greater purpose than ourselves.

God's heart is for oneness.